Accomplishments
This is a live list (mostly just for Myself) documenting the things I’ve done within My time embracing the Dominatrix role. This list showcases My work history/ special experiences/ awards.
Existing as a Pro-Domme is a very a-typical life experience that doesn’t come with the traditional rewards/recognition other professionals receive. In fact just claiming the title ‘Dominatrix’ automatically classifies Me in the counter-culture category. Mentioning how I spend My time or what I do to others comes with a knee jerk reaction of judgment, disgust, and their own shame based views on human sexuality. I don’t really have a resume to hand employers of My past work experiences, like most people do….I just have My exciting memories.
I am extremely thankful for the things I’ve gotten to do, and for the opportunities that flow to Me. I consider My “job” to be a kink advocate who radically fights shame, helps others explore their most authentic selves. Now, I don’t really care if society understands. I consider the FEMDOMME lifestyle to be extremely positive and rewarding, and will continue to be a safe space for others.
Image shot with Lorne Resnick fine art photographer
History-
2012- Became a nude/fetish model. For the record I was never skinny, and embraced My rubenesque shape.
2012- Discovered the FEMDOM lifestyle and was quickly thrust into being a professional. Working in a now closed boutique dungeon in SF.
2013- Shot My first fine art series with photographer Asael Dror (I’ll find and post the photos eventually).
2015- Started developing My first TPE service oriented personal relationships . I’ve since learned a lot.
2016- Shot with Asian Mean Girls.
2016- Began training under My Mentor Simone Justice who helped awaken the confidence and fearlessness to take My passion for kink to the next level.
2017- Began working with PEP love. A community of Dominant Women who believed that everyone has the inherent right to a shame free life. This experience shaped My empathy and understanding of kink so much. I am forever grateful to Sera Miles, Giselle Theboudeaux, and the ladies at PEP for helping shape My radically positive views on the FEMDOM lifestyle.
2017- My first video interview with YourKinkyFriends.
2018- Began working with fine artist Lorne Resnick, being one of his muses on a book he’s developing called lust.
2018- Awarded best pony trainer at DomCon LA (a fun little fantasy competition for human pony play enthusiasts) .
2018- Started hosting events with Debauche in New York, which is a POC prioritized community event for sex positivity and kink.
2018- Awarded top performer gold via niteflirt.com .
2018- First full spread feature in Sour Magazine.
2018- Started performing at events for erotic sex club NSFW in NYC.
2018- Launched iwantthankyouempress.com an erotica clips site.
2019- Taught My first class on kink in NYC with Debauche events.
2019- Second full spread feature in Sour Magazine.
2019- Started hosting events for BDSFEMME a lesbian kink event in Los Angeles with Justine Cross.
2019- Began mentoring new Dommes, a super rewarding experience that I will continue.
2019- Hosted the ProDomme dinner in NYC, and LA.
2020- First full spread and full length interview feature in Kink Queens Magazine.
2020- Learned patience and a lot self love (this was a hard year for everyone)
2021- Launched Membership sites.
2021-Officially became an international Dominatrix.
2021- Developed a women’s empowerment workshop teaching Women sexual self confidence, and self acceptance.
2021- Taught Workshop on The power of Movement for datingkinky.com
2021- Taught at DomCon LA The power of Movement Workshop.
2021- Discussed Holding space for submissive men with Cam Fraser for his podcast on health and sexuality. listen here
2021- Sensual Shibari performance for Queer Thirst in LA
2021- Taught at KinkyKollege in Chicago
2022- Started and hosted the first 2 retreats of Bad Bitch Society - a non profit Women’s empowerment community.
2022- Awarded Guest of honor at DomCon New Orleans, USA
2022- Began teacher training with Hajime Kinoko for Shibari
2023- Awarded at the Femdom Summit in Bucharest, Romania
2024- Headlined a Shibari performance at Nylon House
2024- Began hosting Shibari workshops and meetups in collaboration with Nylon House
2024- Hosted the first international installments of Bad Bitch Society
